type
noun
pronounced
/situationship/
emerged
2022
status
mainstream

situationship

   ambiguous, frustrating, modern

the one-line answer

A romantic connection that is more than friendship but less than a relationship.

A situationship is when two people act like they are in a relationship without ever defining it. You spend time together. You have feelings. You might be exclusive in practice. But nobody has had the conversation. Nobody has made it official. It floats in a frustrating undefined space.

mainstream

Your coworker might use this word.

01 / in the wild

hear it move.

description
we're not dating but we're not just friends either. it's a situationship.
We have romantic involvement without a formal relationship label.
frustrated
I've been in a situationship for eight months. I need answers.
I have been in this undefined romantic situation for too long.
03 / don't confuse

similar, not the same.

situationship

Talking stage is the early getting-to-know-you phase

vs
talking-stage

Situationship is prolonged ambiguity with no resolution.