roster
/ˈroʊ.stər/
CommonA list of people someone is actively dating or keeping as options simultaneously.
Usually framed neutrally or positively. Having a roster implies you're keeping your options open on purpose, not that you're being deceptive.
Real-world examples4 examples
| # | Example | What it means | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 01 | he's still on the roster but barely | Still talking to someone but losing interest. | x, 2023 |
| 02 | she got cut from the roster after that third date | Decided to stop pursuing someone. | tiktok, 2023 |
| 03 | my roster is empty right now and i'm fine with it | Not currently pursuing anyone romantically. | x, 2024 |
| 04 | you can't be upset, you knew you were on a roster | Reminding someone that the arrangement was never exclusive. |
Use it when
- Talking about multiple people you're casually dating at once.
- Describing someone who intentionally keeps their options open.
- Adding or removing someone from your pool of potential partners.
Do not use it when
- You're in a committed relationship.
- You mean a literal team roster or work schedule.
Roster vs talking stage
roster
A roster refers to all the people you're entertaining at once.
VS
talking-stage
The talking stage is the phase with one specific person before dating officially.
Origin and context
Borrowed from sports terminology where a roster lists a team's active players. Applied to dating culture in the early 2020s as casual multi-dating became more openly discussed online.
- First seen
- early-2020s
- Confidence
- medium
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