rehearsal dinner
/rɪˈhɜːr.səl ˈdɪn.ər/
CommonA dinner held the night before a wedding for the wedding party and close family, following the ceremony rehearsal.
Often more personal than the wedding reception itself. Speeches at the rehearsal dinner tend to be longer and more heartfelt because the audience is smaller and closer to the couple.
Real-world examples4 examples
| # | Example | What it means | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 01 | the rehearsal dinner speech from her dad had the whole room crying before the wedding even happened | The father of the bride gave an emotional speech the night before the wedding. | x, 2024 |
| 02 | tbh the rehearsal dinner was more fun than the reception, just vibes and no pressure | The smaller, more relaxed pre-wedding dinner was more enjoyable than the wedding itself. | reddit, 2023 |
| 03 | still picking a rehearsal dinner venue and the wedding is in 3 months, someone help | The couple is behind on planning the pre-wedding dinner. | tiktok, 2024 |
| 04 | rehearsal dinner look needs to be different from the wedding look but still elevated, the pressure is real | The speaker wants a distinct but stylish outfit for the pre-wedding dinner. | instagram, 2024 |
Use it when
- Referring to the dinner held the evening before a wedding ceremony.
- Describing the event where final toasts and speeches are given before the wedding.
- Talking about the last gathering of the inner circle before the big day.
Do not use it when
- You mean the wedding reception.Use “reception” instead.
- You mean the bachelorette or bachelor party.
Origin and context
A tradition rooted in American wedding culture that became standard practice by the mid-20th century. Originally intended as a practical dinner after the ceremony walk-through, it evolved into a meaningful celebration in its own right.
- First seen
- mid-20th century
- Confidence
- medium
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