over the bridge
/ˈoʊvər ðə brɪdʒ/
UncommonA gentle way of saying a pet has died, referencing the rainbow bridge afterlife concept.
Often shortened from 'crossed the rainbow bridge.' The standalone phrase is common in pet communities where the reference is understood without needing to spell it out.
Real-world examples3 examples
| # | Example | What it means | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 01 | my sweet boy went over the bridge tuesday morning. i'm absolutely devastated | The owner's pet died on Tuesday. | reddit, 2024 |
| 02 | she's been over the bridge for two years and i still talk to her photo every morning | The owner maintains a ritual connection with a pet who died two years ago. | instagram, 2023 |
| 03 | so sorry your baby is over the bridge now. she was loved so much | Offering condolences to someone whose pet just died. | tiktok, 2024 |
Use it when
- Gently saying a pet has died without using that word.
- Responding to someone's pet loss with soft, familiar language.
- In pet loss communities where the shorthand is understood.
Do not use it when
- Talking to someone who is not in pet communities and may not recognize the reference.Use “passed away” instead.
- The pet is still alive.
Origin and context
Shortened from the longer phrase 'crossed the rainbow bridge,' which itself comes from a grief poem circulated in pet bereavement communities since the 1980s-90s.
- First seen
- 2000s
- Confidence
- medium
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