mutuals
/ˈmjuːtʃuəlz/
Very CommonPeople who follow each other on social media. A mutual follower relationship.
Can be warm or neutral depending on context. Sometimes used to establish credibility ('we're mutuals') or to distance ('you're just a mutual to me').
Real-world examples4 examples
| # | Example | What it means | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 01 | wait we're mutuals?? i've been lurking your page for months | Surprised to learn the follow is reciprocated, admitting they were already a fan. | x, 2023 |
| 02 | my mutuals are carrying this site honestly | Crediting the people they follow back for making the platform worth using. | x, 2024 |
| 03 | cleared out my mutuals list, fresh start | Removed a large number of mutual followers, starting over socially. | instagram, 2023 |
| 04 | she's not my friend, just a mutual | Clarifying that the person is only a social media connection, not a close friend. | x, 2024 |
Use it when
- Describing a two-way follow relationship.
- Establishing shared context with someone online.
- Referring to the people in your social media orbit.
Do not use it when
- You mean a real-life friend.Use “irl” instead.
- You mean someone you follow but they do not follow back.Use “oomf” instead.
Mutuals vs moots
mutuals
Mutuals is the more general, widely understood term.
VS
moots
Moots is the same concept but feels more inside-internet, especially in stan and fandom spaces.
Origin and context
Adapted from the adjective 'mutual' to describe the two-way follow relationship on social platforms. Became widespread with the rise of Twitter follow culture.
- First seen
- early-2010s
- Confidence
- medium
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