gym crush
/dʒɪm krʌʃ/
CommonSomeone you have a crush on that you see regularly at the gym but rarely or never speak to.
The gym crush is almost always unspoken and unrequited by default. Part of the humor is the absurdity of having feelings for someone you know nothing about.
Real-world examples4 examples
| # | Example | What it means | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 01 | my gym crush switched gyms and I am taking it personally. | The disappearance of the person you liked at the gym felt like a personal rejection. | x, 2024 |
| 02 | gym crush spotted me struggling with the weights and we made direct eye contact. I am never going back. | An embarrassing moment in front of a gym crush caused enough social anxiety to consider quitting. | tiktok, 2024 |
| 03 | accidentally learned my gym crush's name from his workout playlist. I know nothing else about him. | Piecing together tiny details about someone you have never spoken to. | reddit, 2023 |
| 04 | gym crush said good morning to me and I forgot how words work. | A simple greeting from someone you like caused complete social paralysis. | instagram, 2023 |
Use it when
- Talking about someone you are attracted to at your gym but have never spoken to.
- Describing the awkward experience of working out near someone you find attractive.
- Lamenting that you keep seeing someone attractive at the gym but cannot bring yourself to talk to them.
Do not use it when
- You are describing someone you are actually dating or have spoken to meaningfully.
- You just find someone attractive online or in a non-gym setting.Use “crush” instead.
Gym crush vs library crush
gym crush
A gym crush exists in a sweaty, physically charged space where direct interaction feels awkward.
VS
library-crush
A library crush exists in a quiet, cerebral space where silence is the barrier to interaction.
Origin and context
A longstanding informal phrase that gained wider internet traction as gym culture became more prominent on social media.
- First seen
- 2010s
- Confidence
- low
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