griefing
/ˈɡriːfɪŋ/
CommonIntentionally ruining other players' experience for your own amusement.
Different from trash talk or competitive play. The defining feature is that the griefer gains nothing except the other person's misery. Most games consider it a reportable offense.
Real-world examples4 examples
| # | Example | What it means | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 01 | this guy blew up my entire base. been building it for two weeks. pure griefing. | Someone intentionally destroyed hours of creative work for no reason. | reddit, 2023 |
| 02 | our rein keeps walking off the map on purpose. how is this not griefing | A teammate is intentionally dying to sabotage the match. | reddit, 2024 |
| 03 | i don't understand people who spend hours griefing in creative mode. get a hobby. | Why waste time destroying things in a game with no competition involved. | x, 2024 |
| 04 | team killing once is an accident. team killing three times is griefing. | Repeated intentional harm to teammates crosses from mistake to sabotage. |
Use it when
- Someone is intentionally sabotaging their own team.
- A player is destroying things others built in a creative game.
- Someone repeatedly targets one player to ruin their experience.
- A teammate is intentionally feeding kills to the enemy.
Do not use it when
- Someone is just bad at the game. Being unskilled is not griefing.Use “bot” instead.
- Someone killed you fairly in a PvP game. That's just the game.
- Someone is trash talking. Words are not griefing.
Variations and related forms
Griefing vs camping
griefing
Griefing is intentionally sabotaging or ruining the game for others with no strategic benefit.
VS
camping
Camping is a legitimate (if annoying) strategy of staying in one spot to get easy kills.
Origin and context
Emerged from early multiplayer games like Ultima Online and early Minecraft servers where the open nature of the game let players destroy others' work. The term 'grief' as in causing grief became standard gaming vocabulary by the mid-2000s.
- First seen
- early-2000s
- Confidence
- high
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