golden handcuffs
/ˈɡoʊldən ˈhæŋkʌfs/
CommonCompensation perks so good they make it hard to leave a job even when you want to.
Usually said with some resignation or dark humor. People recognize they are being held by money and are partly complaining, partly bragging.
Real-world examples3 examples
| # | Example | What it means | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 01 | would have left 6 months ago but golden handcuffs are real | Unvested stock or bonuses are the only thing keeping this person at the company. | x, 2023 |
| 02 | new offer is better but leaving now costs me 80k in unvested stock. golden handcuffs hit different. | The financial cost of leaving is making a better offer harder to take. | reddit, 2024 |
| 03 | the job is toxic but the RSUs vest in 8 months. golden handcuffs. | Staying through a bad situation because the payout is close. | tiktok, 2024 |
Use it when
- You want to quit but the unvested equity or upcoming bonus is stopping you.
- Describing why someone is staying at a job they dislike.
- Talking about a compensation package designed to keep employees locked in.
Do not use it when
- You just mean someone is paid well and happy.
- You mean a non-compete agreement.Use “non-compete” instead.
Golden handcuffs vs vesting cliff
golden handcuffs
Golden handcuffs is the general concept of being financially retained by compensation.
VS
vesting-cliff
A vesting cliff is a specific schedule milestone where stock first becomes yours.
Origin and context
Finance and HR term in use since at least the 1970s. Became much more common in tech culture as RSU and stock option grants became standard parts of compensation packages.
- First seen
- 1970s
- Confidence
- medium
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