foster fail
/ˈfoʊstər feɪl/
CommonWhen someone fostering a pet ends up adopting them instead of returning them.
The word 'fail' is entirely ironic. Foster fails are universally celebrated by pet communities online.
Real-world examples4 examples
| # | Example | What it means | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 01 | so we foster failed. her name is Olive now. | They adopted the pet they were supposed to return. | instagram, 2023 |
| 02 | went in to foster one cat and came home with two. double foster fail. | Adopted two cats they were only meant to temporarily house. | reddit, 2022 |
| 03 | everyone who meets him says foster fail is inevitable | The pet is so lovable that no one believes they will give him back. | tiktok, 2024 |
| 04 | the rescue called and i panicked. foster fail confirmed. | When the rescue called to place the pet, they realized they could not give them back. | x, 2023 |
Use it when
- A foster parent announces they are keeping the animal they were fostering.
- Joking that you did not give back a foster pet as planned.
- Describing any situation where a temporary arrangement turned permanent out of affection.
Do not use it when
- Describing a genuine failure in the foster care process.
Origin and context
Coined within animal rescue and foster communities. The term reframes a common outcome in fostering as a humorous 'failure' to return the animal. Spread widely through pet-focused communities on Reddit, Instagram, and TikTok.
- First seen
- mid-2010s
- Confidence
- medium
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