elevator conversation
/ˈɛlɪveɪtər ˌkɒnvəˈseɪʃən/
CommonPolite, meaningless small talk you make with someone when you are stuck together briefly and cannot leave.
Can also mean a short, rehearsed pitch or explanation. The original literal sense and the 'pitch' sense coexist.
Real-world examples3 examples
| # | Example | What it means | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 01 | rode the elevator with my manager for 20 floors and the entire thing was elevator conversation. so painful. | They talked the whole time but said nothing of substance. | reddit, 2024 |
| 02 | i hate when a neighbor catches me and it becomes a 10-minute elevator conversation in the hallway | A brief forced exchange that dragged on past the point of comfort. | x, 2023 |
| 03 | 'how was your weekend' is just elevator conversation. nobody wants the real answer. | The question is a social ritual, not a genuine inquiry. | tiktok, 2024 |
Use it when
- You are stuck in an elevator with your boss and both of you say nothing real.
- Describing the specific type of shallow chat that happens in brief captive moments.
- Talking about how exhausting forced pleasantries are.
Do not use it when
- You mean an elevator pitch (business context, not social).Use “elevator pitch” instead.
- You mean a real conversation that happened to occur in an elevator.
Origin and context
Derived from the literal scenario of sharing an elevator briefly. The phrase captures the specific discomfort of obligatory conversation with people you cannot avoid.
- First seen
- pre-2010
- Confidence
- medium
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