backlog shame
/ˈbæklɒɡ ʃeɪm/
CommonThe guilt a gamer feels about owning more games than they will realistically ever play.
Almost always self-directed and said with humor. Rarely genuine distress. More a badge of recognition among gaming communities than real shame.
Real-world examples4 examples
| # | Example | What it means | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 01 | just bought 8 games in the steam sale. the backlog shame is hitting different | Feeling the guilt of adding more games to an already large unplayed library. | reddit, 2024 |
| 02 | 247 unplayed games in my steam library. I have accepted the backlog shame and moved on | No longer feeling bad about the backlog and choosing to embrace it instead. | reddit, 2023 |
| 03 | I tell myself no more games until I clear the backlog. game goes on sale. backlog shame wins again | Despite intentions to reduce the backlog, buying another game anyway. | x, 2024 |
| 04 | no backlog shame here. I own them, they own me | Fully accepting the backlog without guilt. | reddit, 2024 |
Use it when
- You feel guilty about buying a new game when you have a large backlog of unplayed games.
- Joking about adding to a collection you will never finish.
- Acknowledging that owning many unplayed games is a recognizable gaming habit.
Do not use it when
- You mean guilt about playing games instead of being productive.
- You mean a literal overdue list of game bugs or tasks.
Backlog shame vs pile of shame
backlog shame
Backlog shame is the emotion: the guilt you feel about unplayed games.
VS
pile-of-shame
Pile of shame is the physical/digital collection itself: the unplayed games.
Origin and context
Emerged from gaming communities alongside the growth of digital storefronts and frequent sales events, particularly Steam sales, which incentivized buying more games than any player could realistically finish.
- First seen
- 2010s
- Confidence
- medium
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